[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.ttsosek.cz\/mytus-naslouchani-musite-kvuli-spokojenemu-vztahu-poslouchat-veci-ktere-vas-nebavi\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.ttsosek.cz\/mytus-naslouchani-musite-kvuli-spokojenemu-vztahu-poslouchat-veci-ktere-vas-nebavi\/","headline":"M\u00fdtus naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed \u2013 mus\u00edte kv\u016fli spokojen\u00e9mu vztahu poslouchat v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1s nebav\u00ed?","name":"M\u00fdtus naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed \u2013 mus\u00edte kv\u016fli spokojen\u00e9mu vztahu poslouchat v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1s nebav\u00ed?","description":"\u010casto sl\u00fdch\u00e1me, \u017ee \u017een\u011b mus\u00edte bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u011b naslouchat, aby byla spokojen\u00e1. Mus\u00edte si nechat cel\u00e9 hodiny […]","datePublished":"2023-06-08","dateModified":"2023-06-08","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.ttsosek.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.ttsosek.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d81a95b988e562d8ac0fc1eb5578e43f924bf78e85c5259f0dcab44a306610fa?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d81a95b988e562d8ac0fc1eb5578e43f924bf78e85c5259f0dcab44a306610fa?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"ttsosek.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.ttsosek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a290735_w2154_t1503427409.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.ttsosek.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a290735_w2154_t1503427409.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.ttsosek.cz\/mytus-naslouchani-musite-kvuli-spokojenemu-vztahu-poslouchat-veci-ktere-vas-nebavi\/","wordCount":584,"articleBody":"\u010casto sl\u00fdch\u00e1me, \u017ee \u017een\u011b mus\u00edte bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u011b naslouchat, aby byla spokojen\u00e1. Mus\u00edte si nechat cel\u00e9 hodiny vypr\u00e1v\u011bt, jak jej\u00ed kamar\u00e1dka pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 rozvod nebo \u017ee m\u011bla na ob\u011bd knedl\u00edky. M\u00fdtus. \u017dena nen\u00ed zase tak odli\u0161n\u00e1 od mu\u017ee. Mo\u017en\u00e1 r\u00e1da v\u00edce mluv\u00ed, proto\u017ee je tak nastaven\u00e1, ale t\u00e9mata si p\u0159ece m\u016f\u017eete uko\u010d\u00edrovat i s\u00e1m. Nen\u00ed ni\u010d\u00ed povinnost\u00ed poslouchat n\u011bco, co ho nebav\u00ed. \u017de ona r\u00e1da mluv\u00ed o m\u00f3d\u011b a vy o fotbale? P\u0159ece se nemus\u00edte bavit ani o jednom.Ona chce mluvit o filmov\u00e9m festivalu a vy o bussinessu? No a co?Spole\u010dn\u00e9 t\u00e9ma lze naj\u00edt \u00fapln\u011b jinde. Pro\u010d nevzpom\u00ednat na spole\u010dn\u00e9 z\u00e1\u017eitky? Nepopov\u00eddat si o n\u011b\u010dem, co bav\u00ed v\u00e1s oba?Pokud v\u00e1s zrovna nezaj\u00edm\u00e1, co \u017eena \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u0159ekn\u011bte j\u00ed to. S respektem, samoz\u0159ejm\u011b. Kdy\u017e vypust\u00edte z pusy n\u011bco neomalen\u00e9ho o tom, \u017ee u\u017e zase vykl\u00e1d\u00e1 nebo co to jsou zas za blbosti a a\u0165 v\u00e1m d\u00e1 pokoj,\u00a0 asi se nesetk\u00e1te s p\u0159\u00edjemnou reakc\u00ed a pro v\u00e1\u0161 vztah to nebude to nejlep\u0161\u00ed. Ov\u0161em to, \u017ee pl\u00e1c\u00e1te blbosti asi nechcete sly\u0161et ani vy, ne?Jestli m\u00e1te na jazyku n\u011bco nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9ho, proto\u017ee v\u00e1s rozhovor irituje, po\u010dkejte. Po\u010d\u00edtejte do deseti. Omluvte se v klidu a projd\u011bte se po byt\u011b.Pak m\u016f\u017eete v klidu pokra\u010dovat a za\u010d\u00edt o n\u011b\u010dem jin\u00e9m, co v\u00e1s bav\u00ed. Nikdy nev\u00edte, mo\u017en\u00e1 posunete rozhovor na jinou \u00farove\u0148 a skon\u010d\u00edte u pyramid a ciz\u00edch kultur nebo u obl\u00edben\u00fdch aquapark\u016f.Co kdy\u017e m\u00e1 probl\u00e9m\u00a0V\u011bci se komplikuj\u00ed, pokud jde o n\u011bco, co va\u0161i partnerku tr\u00e1p\u00ed a vy byste m\u011bl a nejsp\u00ed\u0161 i chcete b\u00fdt oporou. Tady je opravdu dobr\u00e9 vyslechnout. Jist\u011b, jste mu\u017e a m\u00e1te proto tendenci hledat \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. Ale necht\u011bl byste na jej\u00edm m\u00edst\u011b tak\u00e9 nap\u0159ed nast\u00ednit probl\u00e9m? T\u0159eba se v tomhle bod\u011b m\u016f\u017eete tak trochu dopl\u0148ovat.Jestli v\u00e1m to cel\u00e9 p\u0159ipad\u00e1 komplikovan\u00e9 a zamotan\u00e9 a vlastn\u011b u\u017e to ani nech\u00e1pete, s respektem j\u00ed to \u0159ekn\u011bte. D\u00e1-li se probl\u00e9m zjednodu\u0161it, t\u0159eba pom\u016f\u017ee i druh\u00e9 stran\u011b pod\u00edvat se na v\u0161e z trochu jin\u00e9 perspektivy.P\u0159ipad\u00e1-li v\u00e1m pot\u00ed\u017e nev\u00fdznamn\u00e1, p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm se vyvarujte v\u011bty: \u201eTo je zbyte\u010dn\u00e9.\u201c Tot\u00e1ln\u011b ji t\u00edm znev\u00e1\u017e\u00edte. A na\u0161tvete.Pokud se na \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed zrovna v tu chv\u00edli nec\u00edt\u00edte, m\u016f\u017eete zkusit vyj\u00e1d\u0159it, co v\u00e1m d\u011bje v hlav\u011b. \u201eJsem unaven\u00fd, dnes jsem m\u011bl hodn\u011b pr\u00e1ce. Vadilo by ti se o tom pobavit r\u00e1no?\u201c T\u0159eba nevadilo.Mo\u017en\u00e1 se va\u0161e partnerka i r\u00e1da rozpt\u00fdl\u00ed a odpo\u010dine si. Obejm\u011bte ji. Schov\u00e1 se ve va\u0161em n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed a v\u0161e nebude vypadat tak hrozn\u011b. A to m\u00e1te p\u0159eci r\u00e1di oba, to v\u00e1s spojuje.\u00a0Posledn\u00ed rada, ve v\u0161em v\u017edy pamatujte, \u017ee va\u0161e \u017eena nen\u00ed mimozem\u0161\u0165an, ale \u010dlov\u011bk jako vy. Tak\u00e9 n\u011bkdy pot\u0159ebuje klid. A vy tak\u00e9 n\u011bkdy pot\u0159ebujete mluvit. Nem\u00e1m pravdu?                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.2\/5 - (10 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"M\u00fdtus naslouch\u00e1n\u00ed \u2013 mus\u00edte kv\u016fli spokojen\u00e9mu vztahu poslouchat v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1s nebav\u00ed?","item":"https:\/\/www.ttsosek.cz\/mytus-naslouchani-musite-kvuli-spokojenemu-vztahu-poslouchat-veci-ktere-vas-nebavi\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]